The Failure Versus Feedback Frame in NLP

In NLP, it can be useful to tell people stories to help them reframe. One of the common metaphors that is used to explain the failure versus feedback frame is just the idea that imagine you're driving a car down road or maybe you're at the tiller of a sailboat and the wind is carrying it. Even if the only useful feedback is not to hang around with a person, which reminds us to point out that you can fire people from your lives.