Is Your Ax Wanting to Work on Things but Vanishes?

"If you have an x that wants to work on things but vanishes, my thoughts on that are that x doesn't want to work on Things," she says. "When they vanish, that's not very supportive at all." She adds: 'That's like saying, i only want what I want and then we'll be happy' The person who can't invest their time and energy into the relationship in a fair way is going to create something he or she does not really care about - so let go of them.