Are You Creating a Safe Environment?

i think families often get caught up and like, well, it's just that i don't like that prt boy friend. But it's like, are you creating a safe environment for the other person or not? And it's true for friendships. Its true for familyth the topic doesn't matter. Should we go on vacation? Should we not? Should you bring your partner to have you created a safe environment? I think that that is not a, i haven't thought about safety versus acceptance. It's actually not about that at all.