The Importance of Kink in Relationships

When we say kink we're talking about the whole realm of like playing with our bodies in ways other than we're normally used to. So I don't want to have any expectations here of like you know the riding crops on Wednesday after soccer practice but maybe right? We live in a small apartment with an eight year old child. And so in the context of this apartment we have to think about things like noise and sound and energies moving from one room to the other. Anything you're really like doing sex kind of on purpose like dialed up a notch can be under this realm like we can make kissing into mini kink scenes.