i was dating this girl in ela. Col and, you know, it very clearly wasn't working,. But i think we were. I was so tired of the girls i was going on dates with. She wasSo tired of these creepy dudes. We broke up a couple months later. We were just miserable in the mountains instead of miserable in the valley. Sometimes you try to run away from the thing, and it simply follows you because you're clinging to something else. The truest sign of mastery is when you can do whatever you need to do without having to identify who you are. And the true sign of a novice is that label means everything.