Rihanna: How do you turn over a new leaf? Try to think a little bit about where you are on the spectrum. The realization that everything is so hard is a consequence of awareness, because our whole lives we try to forget. Just like most things in life, once you into it, it turns out to be easier than you expected. And i kid you not, life can absolutely be easy. Life can be joyous. Life could be successful. All these things are possible. Does it apply to you? I hope so.