I've only had a six-year-old daughter before through but I can't remember that as long ago, but currently If I say this is my prediction because I haven't done it yet But if I say hey, you tell me when you're ready. Oh, we're late 100% probability. We're late Then you have to be able to deal with the consequences Okay Hey, son, you're late. That means you're gonna get in trouble at school. That's not on me. That's on you You're responsible and you start to treat kids like an adult And they'll start to take responsibility and take ownership of their own lives. The best version of themselves that