The Unconscious Approach to Relationships

i like to say that when it comes to relationships in particular, the difference between one that's functioning well and one that's not as often shifting from unconscious to conscious. So what you mentioned before is the un conscious strategy. And often when weould ask couples, hey, how did you come up with this strategy? They be like, we just kind of winged it. We actually call that the winged approach. The problem with winging it is that you're essentially allowing, you know, random historical accident and centuries old gender norms to determine how you run your life together. Often that's just not the best way to set things up. Shifting to a more intentional structure is