How to Communicate Your Needs to Your Partner

The idea is like wear your heart on your sleeve don't pretend to be colder than you are understand what your needs are and express them in a non-hurtful way. You're going to attract the girls who you're not even compatible with so it's very worthwhile to just express your needs. How she responds will tell you whether or not she was going to be this this woman that you should actually have in your life if she finds it weird and then she goes to the party anyway and you're there anxious as fucking it's like bro trust me she's not right for you.