Paul: "I don't like when people want to talk about something to try to make me feel better because it brings back those negative emotions and I don't do good at dealing with negative emotions" You can signal some things to them, right? You can tell them explicitly, Hey, I recognize you're trying to talk to me about this, but I actually find that talking about it like brings up more negative emotions. Just like you explained to me, like just share that with them. And then, so it's like a multi-layered thing. Why get pissed? Good. I'm really happy actually, um, Paul, because it sounds like you actually have a lot of