Polyamory - You Can't Promise All the Time to Be OK

Don't promise to be ok in every situation, you can't predict howl you're necessarily going to feel in every situation. The fact that you can see who else your partner chooses can sometimes affect your relationship an and sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse. Sometimes it's just interesting to see the choices that your partner used to make. It does kind of call into question the narrative that monogamy gives you,. which is that your partner has in you because you are the best and you have won the race an ariata. That is really a really interesting thing to experience.