Ross Gay on delight
How We Live Now with Katherine May
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The Hardest Act to Pull Off in Adult Life
I think that's the hardest act to pull off in adult life actually isn't is refusing to hard and no matter what goes on. You know, when you can be like, hey, I'm soft, I'm tender, I'm hurting in my in my experience that helps me not, you know, do the, not defend, not defend and then defending all the other things stupid and violent and brutal. And not building a world against other people's hardness that then creates your own hardness. Right. That's right. The sensual experience of being in a male body in a way that isn't violent or aggressive or sexualized unnecessarily or hard,. Like, we don't hear about
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