Create the Life You Really Want, You Not Other People

It's okay to focus on yourself, but do it in a healthy way. Don't compare yourself to other people. They have their lives. Let them choose what they want. So create the life you really want, you not other people. And you will be more happy. You'll stop caring and worrying about what they what they're doing. That's the positive kind of selfishnessh selfishness. You make yourself happy. Then the next step, only after tht then, after that, you help other people. Because now you have a good life. Now you know yourself. Now you are independent. Now you have something to give other people. With knowledge, you have experience