The Importance of Auto Suggestion in Relationships

With all the information available, why is it that people have a hard time integrating this information? It's their thinking patterns in relation to the information so when we talk about relationships now, we see so many different kinds of relationships. A person just says, this is the kind of relationship that i want. They can be inspired by others, or they can go within themselves and say, what do i really want and discover. And if any doubts, indecision, inaccurate thinking patterns, beliefs are brought to the surface, then that's an opportunity to let em go because that's not who we are. We let those thinking patterns go.