Join me at the 2026 Goal-setting Workshop here - jjlaughlin.com/2026goal
In this episode of Lead On Purpose, I sit down with Dr Jack Groppel, co founder of the Human Performance Institute, to explore the hidden cost of achievement, and what it really takes to win in your career without losing yourself and the people you love.
What we cover:
- The “watch me” drive, people pleasing, and how early approval seeking fuels ambition
- Why world class achievement can mask insecurity, and the personal cost of always saying yes
- Boundaries as a leadership skill, and the simple filter: what matters most right now
- Adoption and fatherhood, and the two weeks in China that reshaped his definition of success
- Mountains Within, and how to pursue meaning alongside achievement, not after it
If you’re driven, ambitious, and constantly chasing the next goal, this conversation will help you zoom out, reset your definition of high performance, and lead your life with more purpose, presence, and integrity..
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James Laughlin is a High Performance Leadership Coach, Former 7-Time World Champion, Host of the Lead On Purpose Podcast and an Executive Coach to high performers and leaders. James is based in Christchurch, New Zealand.
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