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126 When Neglect Is Not Really Neglect

The Place We Find Ourselves

CHAPTER

Is There Ambivalence in Therapy?

As you are starting therapy and looking at your own story, there's something about that experience that is meeting a deeply unmet longing in you to be known. I think parts of my story closed down desire and longing for intimacy. It was very unsafe to consider that I could put within someone's hands a desire for them. And so to share something that I really longed to be held well and to be empathized with opened up a space that I had shut down a long time ago.

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