As we get older, there's an element of temporal dimension which gets added to our lives as we have to start thinking about mortgages and stuff like this. As a therapist, if i'm working with someone like this, the process of cognitive reframing is going in this direction,. I'm just not dating. Thisis like, in the present, ok. So, like, i'm not dating is more happy. And you'll see thats literally adding to temporal dimension is going to correlate with suffering, right?