How Do You Detach Your Self Worth From the Numbers?

I can relate to this journey of yours completely because I also have childhood trauma related to feeling invisible wanting to be seen wanting to be liked. So, yeah, so my question is once you started unraveling that connection between your self worth and your success external validation is that when you started to lose interest in in actually being an influencer. Because I've noticed like I kind of like lost a little drive to create because I started recognizing like, "Oh, like this is what's been driving me and that's unhealthy" And yes, we can talk about this like it's an influencer or content creator or child star issue, but I really think that everyone, especially the young generation has