O basli: Everybody has opinions about the things you write about. If they're right, often we don't necessarily know why. That's how that was my experience with reading your bookright? So i love this part, because i've always said that the reason i believe relationships work is because everybody has their issues or their negatives. You just find the person whose negatives don't bother you that much. Ri you're not going to change it. O basli: In the marriage sect, you talk about viagara. And i just thought it was the best and funniest story and way to start that there. Tell at about, just give the listeners a little teas kiss.