Hiring a master binder is my top number one recommendation to people who were planning a wedding like that. You need to ask the person that you are hiring as the key responsible individual. The more you can marginalize this and get people who really know how to do these things, the better for you. simulate the whole thing before you before you start and then make sure that you're ready. And no thinking slow and fast sorry. But if you took those 11 juristics at the end of the book and you went through them for your wedding I guarantee it doesn't turn out well.