I've Sent Those Texts, I'm Sorry, I Don't Remember You Doing That.

"I'm interested in your thoughts about just like the way the pressure we put on ourselves and the guilt we carry often unnecessarily," she says. "We are so good at making these narratives about how terrible we were and how people hate us or care way too much or don't care about us at all." She adds that it's hard to know what other people think of you unless you ask them, which can be very different from her own experience. 'It is impossible and it is so deeply outside of our control'