The Biggest Myth of Motivation

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The biggest myth of motivation is that it's a mindset issue. Motivation happens after you start doing the things not before. Once your brain feels safe and you get it out of fight, flight freeze, a nervous system that's regulated doesn't need to seek motivation. Your body is always motivated. It's either motivated to conserve energy and survive a lion attack, or it's motivated to do what you want it to do. And once I get it and drink it, everything's taken care of.

It’s February. It’s that time of year when we start to wonder if we might not follow through with our New Year’s resolutions. It’s that time of the year when procrastination becomes a centerpiece of our psychological concerns.

Our guest in this episode is professor, author, therapist, and speaker Britt Frank, a trauma specialist who treats people with a unique and powerful set of techniques and approaches which, taken together, helps clients to get out of the feeling of being STUCK.

Author of The Science of Stuck, she says, “Procrastination is not a character flaw. Nor is it a sign of weakness. Nor is it a sign of laziness.⁣ Procrastination is an indicator that internal consent has not been given. When our inner parts are distressed, afraid, sad, angry, grief-stricken or anxious, it is important to listen to their concerns, not to shame them or coerce them into action.⁣”

In the show you’ll learn about the physiological origins of procrastination – the inner brake pedal and gas pedal – and what to do to escape the two different versions of this universal challenge to getting unstuck and getting things done.