"If you can trust that the person that you're with is going to be giving to you you will want to be giving them exactly and i've been in relationships where that wasn't the case" "It comes down to trust because you trust i trust that you'll do it for me that i would do it for you without us ever talking about it exactly," she says. 'We're not siblings we're oh my god doesn't have to be perfectly exactly right isn't our parents and we're not siblings yeah um okay this is a great question from my dear sweet friend Audrey Assad'