If you're deaf maybe you can assess what it would be like for your child to be a member of the deaf community. If you aren't deaf then you have to decide whether again whether you want your child to become a member of that way or if you want them to get cochlear implants. In many ways some of the outcomes are better for those children in terms of their career opportunities and other kinds of things because they assimilate more easily into ordinary society but in other ways it's not clear that life is better.