Build body confidence outside the bedroom

It’s officially that time of year when the New Year buzz is everywhere. Your feeds are full of fitness goals, habit resets, and “new year, new me” energy. And while there’s nothing wrong with wanting to feel healthier or build new routines, this season also tends to stir up a lot of feelings about our bodies… especially when it comes to intimacy.

So today, we’re bringing back one of our most popular episodes ever — a conversation all about feeling confident in your own skin during sex. Whether you’re riding high on fresh-start motivation or feeling a little self-conscious with all the “improvement” talk around you, this one is your reminder that real confidence has nothing to do with the number on a scale or the size of your jeans.

In this re-air, we’re breaking down the actual tools and mindset shifts that help you feel present in your body, enjoy intimacy, and connect with your partner from a grounded, self-affirming place. Because you deserve to feel good in the body you have right now.

💛 In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why body confidence matters so much during intimacy

• How cultural conditioning shapes the way we see our bodies in the bedroom

• The most common body-related worries couples bring into sex

• Simple mindset reframes that actually help you feel more confident

• Practical tips for staying present instead of spiraling into self-criticism

• How to talk to your partner about body insecurity (without killing the mood)

If you’re in a season where your relationship with your body feels complicated, you’re not alone. We hope this episode helps you feel a little more at home, a little more grounded, and a little more connected — to yourself and your partner.

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