Unsolicited Advice for the Relationist Types | Harmony Groups of the Enneagram
Enneagram & Coffee
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Are You Afraid of Being a Load?
Why are you afraid of being unlovable? Run this through its worst case scenario. Let some one else handle it. Each of you plays a specific role that makes you indispensable. At other times it can bean incredibly meaningful practice to wait ten, 15, 20 minutes, 24 hours before jumping in and offering to take on that responsibility. Maybe they won't do it the way you would do it. But this is a good discomfort. It's a kind of discomfort that will ultimately set you free when it comes from the truest place of benevolence. And rejection's not as big as it feels in theory.
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