The thing that gets us close to a stranger might also get us closer to a co-worker or even a friend that you already know pretty well. Harry Reese has spent his whole life trying to understand how people become more and more intimate with each other. When you are listening to your partner, are you verbally and non-verbally paying complete attention to what they're saying? That's the kind of listening that Harry Reese says is really important for improving relationship quality.
How well do you know the people in your life, really? Are you stuck having surface-level conversations? And should we all be in couples therapy?