What Does It Mean to Love Someone Both Unconditionally and Healthily?

The best thing about being youthful is you are not at too conceited. You have not taken any position in your life yet, that's the best part of being young. But today I see people have taken strong positions about everything in the world. Once you take such positions you will naturally create huge problems in your mind. This is a time to explore, this is a time for learning and coming to a broader level of understanding and perception. The moment you take strong positions, the openness of your mind is lost. Once your mind is not open, suffering is inevitable, how will it be? Thank you very much.