The Importance of Separating Yourself

"This isn't about a judgment. This is about, you know, two people who are in this marriage and struggling with an issue that the husband brought on," she says. "Sometimes it's okay and appropriate to not foreclose the possibility of some kind of healing but also recognize that you can't be with this person right now until he figures out some basic stuff." She adds: "I have a lot of compassion for my departed husband at this point in my life. I'm way beyond the anger and the rage"