How Noticing Yourself Changes Relationships

Host Steve Cuss and Clarissa Moll explore what it means to live “human-sized” — not too big, not too small — in our relationships with others, ourselves, and God. Through personal stories and honest reflection, they unpack how anxiety distorts reality, driving us to dominate or shrink back, and how spiritual practices help us return to balance. Learn how to recognize reactivity, practice discernment, and stay grounded in God’s presence, even in moments of stress or conflict. Steve and Clarissa help listeners move toward emotional health, self-awareness, and spiritual growth in everyday life.

Episode Resources:

• Steve Cuss’s book Managing Leadership Anxiety: Yours and Theirs 

• Anne Lamott’s book Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life (“crappy first draft”)

Biblical References:

• Luke 19:1–10 (ESV) Zacchaeus and Jesus

• 1 Kings 19 (ESV) Elijah Flees Jezebel 

More From Clarissa Moll:

• Clarissa Moll’s The Bulletin podcast

• Explore Clarissa Moll’s website

• Read Clarissa Moll’s substack

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