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Staying and Not Doing Shit About Staying Is Bullshit
Staying and expansions relationally require us to go to our growth edges as individuals. For one partner that's normally the fixer or the chaser, it requires learning how to stop choosing the relationship over yourself. And for the other partner, who usually runs from love, depth connection, your growth edge is actually to learn to stay. To stop sabotaging love because you don't trust it. This isn't the denial that love has hurt you, but rather, to learn to trust yourself in love. Do you see the difference? One person's wholeness is determined by the other. The other one is afraid that their wholeness will dissolve into another. That again, is