Is Your Soulmate Determined Based on Your Actions?

I agree with the understanding that Ester brings which she quotes the Ram Vam says this in the sheer there but that your romantic soul mate is determined based on your actions. My wife never liked when I say this but I don't think if I would have married somebody else it would have necessarily resulted in divorce. There's a spectrum and then you create the relationship through that commitment. Hishtahdosh is working hard in the process because the goals are not really in our hands ever. In a marriage you know to we imagine and we dream let's just say we'll have the perfect castle, perfect kids like these things are not in our hands. What's in our hands is