What Love Is Not?

really wanting to sleep with a woman does not mean you love her. You cannot love someone who doesn't know who you are or barely knows you or doesn't love you back. Love goes both ways. There's a reason why every fucking pop star writes 25 songs about love. I think of it more like how do I feel about this person sort of in totality. What is my not my conscious thought about them like because I can evaluate someone consciously rather than what their resume says. And then the other big thing is someone meeting your emotional needs doesn't even necessarily mean that it's love. It just a good relationship and I don't necessarily love her.