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172: Dealing With Attachment Styles + Will They Ever Change?

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

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How Can I Help Someone Grow Out of It?

There's a difference between enabling a behaviour and helping someone grow out of it. In an argument, when somebody is being out of line, your job is to understand where that comes from. Your job is to protect yourself and let that person know they're in security. But their behaviour, them lashing out, shouting at you, barating you, insulting you, giving you what we call protest behaviour, can be passive aggressive. All those behaviours, it is our job to say: You can't get away with treating me like that. And if it happens again, we're going to ave a problem. Ok?

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