Were They Different After That?

i like to think about if something happened at a specific time, and after that specific time or event, were they different? A good example of that is when my first girl friend showed at my work. And i wasn't really happy to see her because she was dressed in a way back then that i thought was very masculine. Back then, i was judgmental, i was critical, and i had a super ority complex. She put in so much effort to come and see me, and she felt so good about seeing him. I threw that moment away. That was just an awful thing to do, and i wish done it. It changed our relationship, changed the way we related