Why Do You Despise the Riches of His Goodness?

In the middle, paul says, why are you despising the riches of his goodness? I mean, it can't get much more clear than that. That that god doesn't play games. He gives light to every one to lead them to repentance. A n every man is without excuse because they were able. The opportunity made them able. And if they turn and go to other gods, god is chosen. His sovereign will is for you to have a will of your own,. so that you can have real love and real relationstion that's worth having"