You're Never Living in the Moment

i was listening to the sam harris podcast, recently, and there was an episode about time. And they he was talking with a time management expert who wrote a book on time called four thousand weeks. When we're raising kids, we we have to enjoy the moment with our kids. We can't just think, i'm just raising my five year old right now to be a respectable teen ager. Because if you do that, you're always just living in the future of what they're going to be. You're never actually enjoying what they are er. In other words, if the moment i'm enjoying now is going to be responsible for many, many unhappy moments in the future