I Don't Feel Like I Should Sit Down, but I Want It All

We often refer to being with someone who doesn't have it all, in your eyes, as settling. It puts a very negative connotation on the idea that you would make your peace withbeing with someone who hasn't got it all. Instead of having the self awareness to say maybe i can come to terms with the fact that there are things that are frustrating or annoying about me. There's a difference between quirks and genuinely bad habits. And far from settling, there's actually a form of accepting. This is some kind of growing up in the way that we see relationships.