#35 - Finding Common Ground
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
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Are You Making Negative Assumptions About Your Partner?
When we perceive our partner as being unreasonable, that negative assumption tells us they're just completely unreasonable. So again, that priming to experience your partner in a negative way is unhelpful. It's hard to keep track of the fact that your partner is getting so defensive and upset and angry because she feels like you're not listening to her. And likewise, if you're with someone who is withdrawing from you and refusing to talk about things and always getting defensive or telling you why you're wrong, like to avoid making negative assumptions about them.
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