What separates the right people for you from the wrong people for you are those who carry through, who are willing to embrace the discomfort that comes along with growth and compatibility. A willingness to love and to be loved is something that a lot of people simply don't have the inner strength to do. And until you find that person, you'll always have a source of truth to look at: Are they willing to be uncomfortable? So that's it. I'l lend it right there. Forward slash new mind set.