I'm Sorry, Feel Good About Me, Forgive Me

If you hold a self respecting position, it's good for everybody. It's not good for people to get away with using others or disrespect for others. How do you keep those boundaries set? Because if a spouse knows those boundaries, but doesn't respect them in the heat of the moment,. You can't just keep accepting apology after apology, right? And, you know, apologies are worthless in a sense. The real measure of remorse is a change in behavior.