The Book of Job Is Deconstructing

When we try to become this authoritarian, overbearing parent that doesn't allow people to engage in these questions, what happens is we do the very thing that we want to not have happen. We prevent them from having these conversations in safe and healthy ways. And they've done this in the safe environment of your home, where you can help shelter and guide and protect the decisions that they're making. But when you have authoritarian leaders saying, don't deconstruct,. It's bad. It's awful. What happens is you just put it under the surface. All of a sudden, now deconstruction has to be something that is done in the, i won't, i on' ont say