The Importance of Being Direct About Your Feelings

Cheryl: I made it clear that I wanted to get married soon and that I would not wait around much longer. He said the idea of proposing and getting married makes him nervous, she writes. Cheryl: You are not to be blamed for having this fairy tale idea about this proposal. She says if he can't even make a mutual sacrifice to split holidays, should I want to marry him? My mother thinks I should only give him until Valentine's Day.