How to Lean Into Suffering

For 21 years, no one in marian's family knew what had happened to her sister lucy. Denial is an important part of survival but as a conclusive position can lead to oppressive regimes. Learning to lean into suffering so that it can be related to and not ended against may take half a lifetime. Something to avoid is what marion calls sound bite suffering - treating news like a snack. Light a candle, say a prayer, read, discuss, create, cry, volunteer time.