
How Can I Get Along with My “Difficult” Boss? (from HBR’s Women at Work)
Coaching Real Leaders
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Research shows, especially with insecure people, that flattery helps because it reduces that insecurity. So i would try to focus both mentally and your to help your frame of mind, what is he really good at. And once you've actually done that a few times, the ego defensiveness has been reduced. I think he might develop a little bit of a report of his own about how things are going on in this environment. We tried that thing where we said: 'Kim knows what she's talking about' It worked for us. But if he keeps kimising me, then you're just stuck in mental battle with him. You don't always have to be doing
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