How I Use Tantrums to Connect
Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments
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Having a Tantrum and Big Feelings Is a Good Idea
If we can not have a tantrum while our child is having a tantrum, then we're really cementing this idea of co-regulation. It's important for us to be the safe space always because it also keeps our kids safe when we're the safe space. If we get mad because they're having a hard time, now we're not safe. Now we've said, your feelings are too big for me. I cannot handle them,. They push me into dysregulation and I am not going to be able to manage.
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