i recognized in that moment, as cartoli would say, theres there's unconscious pain body stuff going onmen. One of the things we like to do to each other is provoke, or you could say, feed each other's pain bodiesy unless, by the way, which sounds evil,. Oar, no, normal. I was going to save and be that's almost, that's probably true for almost any close friendship. Yel, it's not the only thing. There are some friendships, i think, where that's the only thing that happens, yes. But i think i've had some like that, yes. Even really great friendships, it's almost like when you