Episode 21: Cowgirls And Doggies And [Redacted], Oh My! Your Guide To Trying New Sex Positions
Pillow Talks
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How Do I Tell My Partner a Position Isn't Working for Me?
Xander: How do I tell my partner a position isn't working for me without ruining the mood? Xander: Suggest a position that you know does work. Tell your partner, Hey, let me get on top instead. You don't even have to make any sort of comparison to it. It's just moving ahead to something positive that you know will work. If we're having sex and it's like even feeling awkward and kind of weird and Xander says to me, "Let me get ontop right now," he'll say in a sexy voice. That can make it feel really sexy and enticing in that moment.
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