The Importance of Being Called a Mean Person

I think there is a sense of an eternal individual that is allowed to be preserved but then also sanctified at the same time and I just I think that reveals a god who is so loving. God teaches us correct principles and let us govern ourselves which allows for our individuality and our personality and our creativity to come through what also within a bounds we can't say oh it's just my individuality to be a mean person like no that's not allowed right yeah right.