In your new book, the course of love, you describe the arc of a relationship from the moment two people see each other to the moments when their love ends. You say we fall in love because we long to escape from ourselves with some one as ideal as we are corrupt. I wanted to bring an academics, forensic eye to the minutiae of love. There are so many lines in both on love and the course ofLove that i am going to read back to you to ask for elaboration, maybe to challenge you a little bit.